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#287084 - 05/11/09 03:24 PM In Desperate Need of a Friend / Birmingham UK
J.Baby Offline

Registered: 01/29/09
Posts: 22
Loc: West Mids UK
hi, my names j. i am currently going through a seperation with my wife which all started as my past caugt up with me. i have had to cancel all my T appointments as i've lost my car and i have no way of getting there. i have only 1 friend and he doesn't live anywhere near me. i will be going to the police re my abusers soon. i just want some friends and i know that might make me sound like a loser (not denying it) but i really do need some good friends. im told im very good looking but i havn't got the confidence to go with it. i have absolutely no self esteem so going out and making friends becomes one of the hardest tasks out there. i prefer talking to women, it is incrdeibly hard for me to talk to other men about my past (i have only ever spoken to 1) which goes to show just how desperate i am for a friend.
So if your from anywhere near b-ham (Smethwick, West Brom, Walsall etc)would love to go for a drink or a meal or a smoke sometime (i do love to smoke).
please let me know.

Your loser,

J Baby. x

#287101 - 05/11/09 06:46 PM Re: In Desperate Need of a Friend / Birmingham UK [Re: J.Baby]
Trucker51 Offline

Registered: 05/21/08
Posts: 2826
Loc: Denver, CO
Well, get yourself to Denver. British Airways flies here nonstop. We have a Saturday social group of survivors here and would be glad to welcome a new member anytime. Just let us know and we will be glad to come and pick you up at our airport.

Have you tried Survivors Swindon? They are an organization out of Swindon that has been active in supporting our cause since 1991. The head of the outfit is named Steve. Sign into their guestbook and leave him a message, or you can call him directly during the day also. They also have a small discussion forum similar to ours, plus a wealth of other free information.

Hope that this helps,


"We stay here, we die here. We've got to keep moving". Trucker Mark

#287189 - 05/12/09 01:27 PM Blank [Re: Trucker51]
steveb121 Offline
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Registered: 01/02/01
Posts: 157
Loc: Swindon, UK


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