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#286127 - 05/03/09 12:55 PM Searching for an offender
m2ffy Offline

Registered: 05/03/09
Posts: 1
btw I couldn't believe how difficult it was to find a support group for victims of sexual abuse.

anyway when I was between 9-10 I was repeatedly sexually abused by someone who for some unknown reason was trusted by my parents in the mid 70's. the information I have gottn from my family is very sketchy indeed (mind you it took more 20 something years to get them to even admit I was abused. I am in my 40's now I still don't feel I have dealt with this properly. I know there were many other children in this area at the time and would like to do some searches through sex offender registers and such. I am tired of people telling my to get over it and leave the past in the past. I am wondering if anyone has any tips on finding these people. This guy would be no older than 60 now and I cant help think "what if he still does it"? I would assume he has had convictions.

I am a m2f TS but I had flagged that particular anomaly before the abuse.

#286191 - 05/03/09 11:16 PM Re: Searching for an offender [Re: m2ffy]
Sans Logos Offline

Registered: 05/31/03
Posts: 5796
Loc: in my own world in pittsburgh,...
welcome my friend! please join us in chat for a healing circle on sunday nights at 9pm. hopefully we can put our heads together and chat more in depth about you topic.


Ron Schulz, MSPC, NCC

#286566 - 05/07/09 12:50 PM Re: Searching for an offender [Re: Sans Logos]
DJsport Offline

Registered: 02/20/08
Posts: 1742
There are websites for finding sex offenders. Start by going to

This is a good step toward healing. I have been involved in this search too.


Live to your fullest potential

Never make someone a priority if your only an option

#286616 - 05/07/09 06:41 PM Re: Searching for an offender [Re: DJsport]
TNuss Offline

Registered: 02/28/06
Posts: 203
Loc: Del-A-Ware???
I found two of my offenders through a google search and facebook.

All my best!!!

In harmony,
I hug myself daily until the day I find the embrace that completes me.

#286648 - 05/07/09 11:55 PM Re: Searching for an offender [Re: TNuss]
men_of_hrts.dbw Offline

Registered: 02/20/09
Posts: 302
Loc: Orchidland Big Island Hawaii
I believe in digging!

I did the same math you did for 29 years

Nine months after I started talking about the HRT in 1978 in July 2007 I found THE MAN on a search, one of many.

Total commotion and chaos for another three months but definate conclusion

I hope your search gives you the desired result.

Doug>ASA Survivor (1x)
ECV 6001/MaTuCa Chapter 1849
E Clampus Vitus
"What Say the Brethren"
"Hang the Bastards"


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