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#286127 - 05/03/09 08:55 AM Searching for an offender
m2ffy Offline

Registered: 05/03/09
Posts: 1
btw I couldn't believe how difficult it was to find a support group for victims of sexual abuse.

anyway when I was between 9-10 I was repeatedly sexually abused by someone who for some unknown reason was trusted by my parents in the mid 70's. the information I have gottn from my family is very sketchy indeed (mind you it took more 20 something years to get them to even admit I was abused. I am in my 40's now I still don't feel I have dealt with this properly. I know there were many other children in this area at the time and would like to do some searches through sex offender registers and such. I am tired of people telling my to get over it and leave the past in the past. I am wondering if anyone has any tips on finding these people. This guy would be no older than 60 now and I cant help think "what if he still does it"? I would assume he has had convictions.

I am a m2f TS but I had flagged that particular anomaly before the abuse.

#286191 - 05/03/09 07:16 PM Re: Searching for an offender [Re: m2ffy]
Sans Logos Offline

Registered: 05/31/03
Posts: 5793
Loc: in my own world in pittsburgh,...
welcome my friend! please join us in chat for a healing circle on sunday nights at 9pm. hopefully we can put our heads together and chat more in depth about you topic.


Ron Schulz, MSPC, NCC
  1. the past
  2. advocacy

#286566 - 05/07/09 08:50 AM Re: Searching for an offender [Re: Sans Logos]
DJsport Offline

Registered: 02/20/08
Posts: 1742
There are websites for finding sex offenders. Start by going to

This is a good step toward healing. I have been involved in this search too.


Live to your fullest potential

Never make someone a priority if your only an option

#286616 - 05/07/09 02:41 PM Re: Searching for an offender [Re: DJsport]
TNuss Offline

Registered: 02/28/06
Posts: 203
Loc: Del-A-Ware???
I found two of my offenders through a google search and facebook.

All my best!!!

In harmony,
I hug myself daily until the day I find the embrace that completes me.

#286648 - 05/07/09 07:55 PM Re: Searching for an offender [Re: TNuss]
men_of_hrts.dbw Offline

Registered: 02/20/09
Posts: 302
Loc: Orchidland Big Island Hawaii
I believe in digging!

I did the same math you did for 29 years

Nine months after I started talking about the HRT in 1978 in July 2007 I found THE MAN on a search, one of many.

Total commotion and chaos for another three months but definate conclusion

I hope your search gives you the desired result.

Doug>ASA Survivor (1x)
ECV 6001/MaTuCa Chapter 1849
E Clampus Vitus
"What Say the Brethren"
"Hang the Bastards"


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