I am NOT responsible for the s**t SOMEONE else forced onto me.
Until they get that in their heads they cannot help me.
AMEN! I have spoken to $40,000 per month programs that state that they WILL NOT address root cause elements of my PTSD. How stupid!
As for not being responsible for what others forced onto me:
If there is "sin," and "sin against others" is in existence, the sinner must take responsibility. Jesus died for OUR sins. "OUR" = individual and collective.
If there is no individual responsibility assigned, working toward healing is a lot like chasing a greased-pig around the farm-yard.
Realized this; when I disclosed after long fervent, on-my-knees prayer, my addictions vanished. I am first hand witness to the healing power of God in that regard.
I only went to CR because I was seeking fellowship in healing. What I found was a lot of misdirected blame and locus of control. (Misdirected for my case)