To be spiritual is easy, just follow your spirit, in the moment, moment after another!
So either I am being 'in spirit', hence spiritual right now, or not. Spirituality never an adjective, rather it is a verb.
To be in the moment, by whatever methodology one might choose is imperative step in spirituality for me, because as long as you are sure you are following your heart, and not a dictate you read in some text yesterday, nothing else really matters in life. Because to follow your heart, despite all that your past history has taught you, is true test of our courage, as spirituality nothing without courage and yes honesty!
So to be begin with, spirituality is always in the moment, its clear. Further it is about behaviour, never
about beliefs as many people fight over. If we can bring out our humanity to the surface that is true spirituality to me, rest are all viewpoints and here says. Each time I see a person trying to demonstrate his spiritual nature, I know he is either hiding something from us or from himself, because true integration or self-realization, is bringing all parts of our true nature in all its shades humanly possibly, and then accepting all of them, equally. That is when we become whole, complete otherwise just spend rest of our lives running away from our shadows or being chased by them, and always entangled in them, while all they need is one clear look in the eyes, of acceptance, and that leads to transcendence.
And that is true spirituality to me.
Accepting our human nature is the task here, we are divine already as that is where we have all come from!