At first I didn't really worry too much about what my carer was doing because nurses did the same sort of stuff even though I didn't really like enemas.
Then one day thngs changed and he wanted to give me an enema while some school friends were there and I objected violently.
Two of the three guys said they better go as I would want to be alone but the third friend offered to stay and help.
Despite my objections I was manhandled and they went ahead and did it. I was humiliated having this done in front of a friend but I don't think either of us realised what my carer's motives were and he was in fact setting us both up for other things as I got to thirteen years old.