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#260850 - 11/10/08 05:06 AM Re: Feeling:Dom /Sub/ Masc/Fem [Re: 88SEAN88]
1islandboy Offline

Registered: 06/23/08
Posts: 906
Loc: washington
Sometimes the confusion leads to pain...

...and on the other hand (I believe) embracing these feelings (hardly feeling terminally unique at this point) might end with
positive (as apposed) to negative results.

I guess...what I am trying to say is...I'm not exactly sure I want to FIGHT these feelings.

I am absolutely positively sure, I would like to have a better grasp or sense of understanding of WHAT I am dealing with...

It is clearly obscure. (no joke)

And it is simply this HARD for me to figure this stuff out sometimes. (these emotions)

I've got owners manuals on everything I own (including the can opener).

Where is mine...???

You are a lighthouse in the fog.


Rise above the storm and you will find the sunshine ~ M.F. Fernandez

#264915 - 12/03/08 12:26 AM Re: Feeling:Dom /Sub/ Masc/Fem [Re: 1islandboy]
oneday Offline

Registered: 09/03/08
Posts: 8
Loc: pacific northwest
I have the same questions myself. I am a member of AA and NA and SAA !! too.
Once I got clean it left this huge vaccum that was instantly filled up with lots of feelings I had not dealt with sober ever. My only answer for me is; I am what I am ! (I am bi/genderqueer into D&s with consenting partners only)
it may not be mainstream, but then lots of other people are not mainstream either.

I hope this helps in some small way.

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