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#251989 - 09/30/08 02:27 AM Re: Hope and Fear [Re: Elad 12]
Davesc Offline

Registered: 09/25/08
Posts: 67
Loc: NJ
another Dave here. I saw the retreat advertised. I am afraid to go because of the triggers. I don't want to act out with strangers and I would be surrounded by them, Many with the same problems and inclinations as me. Don't know what to do. If you have had this thought PM me please.

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#251996 - 09/30/08 02:39 AM Re: Hope and Fear [Re: Davesc]
Fissy Tsickens Offline

Registered: 09/24/08
Posts: 466
Loc: Bassett, Virginia
Same issues as Davesc -- triggers. My wife is also very concerned about this. Does anyone have any info regarding this?

Wish that I could cry
Fall upon my knees
Find a way to lie
About a home Iíll never see

It may sound absurd...but donít be naive
Even heroes have the right to bleed
I may be disturbed...but wonít you concede
Even heroes have the right to dream
Itís not easy to be me

#252391 - 10/01/08 07:53 PM Re: Hope and Fear [Re: Fissy Tsickens]
sunwolf Offline

Registered: 09/20/08
Posts: 225
Loc: Indiana
the only thing that will prevent or take care of triggers is trying to feel safe..I dont think that being around other vicitms of abuse should be of any concern..but thats me...try to find someone you trust that wil lbe thre with you..

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