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#251648 - 09/28/08 03:57 PM Remembering
behindthewall Offline

Registered: 07/28/08
Posts: 126
Loc: US

#251649 - 09/28/08 04:01 PM Re: Remembering [Re: behindthewall]
M3 Offline

Registered: 09/04/07
Posts: 1392
Loc: Central Ohio
Yes, it is better knowing because once you know, you can process and heal.


Recovery is a bumpy road but it is worth the journey. Don't be discouraged and don't be afraid to lean on your brothers here online when you need our support.

Peace and love...


#251651 - 09/28/08 04:30 PM Re: Remembering [Re: behindthewall]
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Registered: 09/11/08
Posts: 1357
Loc: Québec, Canada
The guy that I am wants to know all the ugly and painfull details of my history - not for the pleasure of knowing but rather because the confusion of not knowing terrifies me even more than my darkest truth.

Knowing can ultimatly lead me to understanding - understanding to the power needed to make the changes in my today so as to no longer live in the impact of my past.

Only as I was able to process them in a healthy and constructive manner did all my repressed memories come back to me. For years I lived with incomprehensible fragmentary flashes pertaining to my childhood abuse and I too believed that I was a crazy person. I was not crazy - I was a broken, wounded child in an adult body. And that is fixable.

Your fellow journeyman,

My Story 1
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The longest journey we take is to self-discovery


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