Newest Members
cactus8, Neil Benesh, blazzeee, mmm coffee, Calibre09
13530 Registered Users
Today's Birthdays
Asmodeus (34), comeath3 (78), Poo (53), Roy (56), Skeeter (58), tazrad (46), Treehugger75 (42), waterworld (56)
Who's Online
1 registered (BDD), 72 Guests and 2 Spiders online.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Forum Stats
13,530 Registered Members
75 Forums
70,383 Topics
491,511 Posts

Most users ever online: 418 @ 07/02/12 11:29 AM
Page 1 of 2 1 2 >
Topic Options
#248369 - 09/06/08 06:21 PM Need laundry tip.*T*
blueshift Offline

Registered: 01/21/08
Posts: 1242
Loc: infinity
I have a little scar on the inside of my butthole from having some wacko rape me with a flashlight a few years ago and since then I've had a lot of skid marks on my underpants that don't come all the way out in the wash. Seems my pooper can't do as good a job anymore holding in the leakage. (I know, it's gross.)

I can soak my white ones in bleach but I have colored ones too and if anyone knows a good way to get em clean I'd appreciate any tips.

Just one more little reminder for me of my being a rape survivor. I usually take two and sometimes three showers a day just to keep that part of myself clean. Ugh! Feel like crap just talking about this.

My Story
My Art

#248371 - 09/06/08 06:35 PM Re: Need laundry tip.*T* [Re: blueshift]
LN3(SS) Offline

Registered: 06/20/08
Posts: 486
Loc: MD

Have you tried spot remover with one of the old fashioned scrubbing boards? If the regular detergent removers won't work, take a step up to the industrial strength. I think they sell them at some of the warehouse chains.

If this seems like too much work, just can the coloreds and move to whites. It sucks, but it was easier for me. I feel dirty discussing this too.


"When we go into battle, I will be the first to set foot on the field, and I will be the last to step off, and I will leave no one behind. Dead, or alive, we will all come home together." LTG Hal Moore, Jr., USA (Ret.)

#248376 - 09/06/08 06:52 PM Re: Need laundry tip.*T* [Re: LN3(SS)]
ineffable Offline

Registered: 02/07/08
Posts: 1371
Loc: state of holeecrapdood

It's crappy (pun intended).
But we have also been conditioned to view the body's natural funtions shamefully.
Many men deal with leakage.
My effect was the opposite, it was more of a blockage.
I had to have an anal dilation in my early 20's.

Try vinegar or salt


:: "Anyone who can handle a needle convincingly can make us see a thread which is not there" ::

#248377 - 09/06/08 06:52 PM Re: Need laundry tip.*T* [Re: LN3(SS)]
Trucker51 Offline

Registered: 05/21/08
Posts: 2826
Loc: Denver, CO
Spray & Wash, which is used to pre-treat stains works 90% of the time for me, and my wife is a big fan of a washing machine additive called Sun Oxygen Cleaner. Use them together and it is almost foolproof. Maybe use a scented detergent too.


"We stay here, we die here. We've got to keep moving". Trucker Mark

#248378 - 09/06/08 07:12 PM Re: Need laundry tip.*T* [Re: Trucker51]
AndyJB2005 Offline

Registered: 11/14/06
Posts: 1249
Loc: Minnesota
There's no shame in wearing disposable undergarments, I feel. And there's some out there where no one could even notice. Might save you a lot of headache. *shrug*

Life's disappointments are harder to take when you don't know any swear words. -- Calvin (Calvin and Hobbes)

#248555 - 09/08/08 01:44 AM Re: Need laundry tip.*T* [Re: blueshift]
pufferfish Offline

Registered: 02/26/08
Posts: 6875
Loc: USA

The skid marks are from a small amount of bleeding. Blood doesn't come out with bleaches or ordinary laundry. It has to be removed prior to laundering. Spray them before washing with a product called Spray 'n Wash or equivalent.

The skid marks are rust. Blood is oxidized to rust particles by bleaches and washing. Rust is extremely difficult or impossible to remove.

You may have had some damage to the anal sphyncter which is not healing properly. It is impossible to tell without examination by a competent physician. When they check your prostate gland the idea is to not linger. They usually don't examine very well.

I sometimes have skid marks too. I had the flashlight routine also as a kid but with other tools. My doctor identified scar tissue a number of years ago.

Bleeding hemorrhoids can also cause the skid marks. Lots of people have the hemorrhoid problem. Hemorrhoids, if you have them, are not from your trauma but have another unrelated cause. There are dietary treatments for hemorrhoids if that is what you have.


#248850 - 09/09/08 06:29 PM Re: Need laundry tip.*T* [Re: pufferfish]
TJ jeff Offline

Registered: 08/07/04
Posts: 3576
Loc: Northern Wisconsin
Spray and Wash and OxiClean works for me...

I've totaly canned wearing tighty whiteys (for reasons related to things my uncle did) I've found that the colored boxers in a polin fabric release stains much easier

Who will cry for the little boy? - I will... - Antwone Fisher

Abuse happens in silence/isolation - Recovery happens only when that silence/isolation is broken...

TJ's History

#248858 - 09/09/08 06:59 PM Re: Need laundry tip.*T* [Re: blueshift]
M3 Offline

Registered: 09/05/07
Posts: 1392
Loc: Central Ohio
Never thought I'd see this topic on the site.

Ok, I have Crohn's disease so trust me, I've dealt with all sorts of leakage, especially when my Crohn's is active. I don't particularly like boxers because the material is so thin, that if there is leakage, it goes right through and onto your pants (which can present an entirely different problem ). What I've found is wearing colored boxer briefs works best for me. They don't seem to ride up as much (less stains) and they seem to clean better and not stain (I just use regular liquid detergent and fabric softner). Come to think of it, the liquid fabric softner may be the key. Liquid fabric softner works by coating the fabric and thus repels water. I wonder if it acts as some sort of stain preventer in this case?

Wow, never thought that piece of knowledge would ever come in handy. \:D Hope this helps!


#248949 - 09/10/08 02:21 AM Re: Need laundry tip.*T* [Re: M3]
pufferfish Offline

Registered: 02/26/08
Posts: 6875
Loc: USA
I too have had all kinds of digestive problems. As a little kid I had nervous indigestion and would take of pepto bismol.

It has developed into diverticulitis. I have lots of food allergies or food irritants. I was abused in a boy scoot camp and for some weird reason I have become allergic to some of the typical foods they serve in such a camp. If anybody can explain this it would be interesting. But when I eat eggs for instance I get hemorrhoids which can bleed if I eat a lot of them (eggs not hemorrhoids).

#249090 - 09/11/08 03:06 AM . [Re: pufferfish]
GoFigure12 Offline
Junior Member

Registered: 09/22/06
Posts: 72
Loc: USA

Page 1 of 2 1 2 >

Moderator:  ModTeam, TJ jeff 

I agree that my access and use of the MaleSurvivor discussion forums and chat room is subject to the terms of this Agreement. AND the sole discretion of MaleSurvivor.
I agree that my use of MaleSurvivor resources are AT-WILL, and that my posting privileges may be terminated at any time, and for any reason by MaleSurvivor.