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#443928 - 08/10/13 10:07 AM Re: For Ken Singer, LCSW but also feel totally free to add your comments or questions [Re: Ivo]
Jude Offline

Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1633
Loc: New England
Originally Posted By: Ivo
What would you ask a perpetrator?

Would you prefer rat poison or cyanide?
I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don't let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories
Sarah McLachlan

#443935 - 08/10/13 11:08 AM Re: For Ken Singer, LCSW but also feel totally free to add your comments or questions [Re: Ivo]
Ken Singer, LCSW Offline

Registered: 08/24/00
Posts: 5781
Loc: Lyons, CO USA
It is in the MS bookstore, available from Amazon, and the publisher, NEARI press. You can look for reviews on Amazon and it is now in its second printing.
Blissfully retired after 35 years treating sexual abuse

#443957 - 08/10/13 01:38 PM Re: For Ken Singer, LCSW but also feel totally free to add your comments or questions [Re: Ivo]
genedebs Offline

Registered: 11/09/12
Posts: 316
Loc: MO
To All,

All I have is my experience. One individual is my brother. He believes the sexual abuse of his brothers was normal response to his own sexual abuse. (Although he could not remember his csa, he was certain he had experienced it) The person he believes abused him, took pornographic pictures of me.

Did he do it more than once. Yes. Did he have any remorse or a sense of his doing something inappropriate, no.

The data seems to suggest that one third of individuals who are abused will abuse. This is heavily dominated with physical abuse victims so may not be accurate for sexual abuse victims. However, there are a variety of parallel results in the behaviors of physical and sexual abuse victims.

The higher incidence of drug and alcohol abuse, the increased vulnerability of physically abuse to also be sexually abused, behavior of control through manipulation and violence.

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