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#139452 - 01/30/07 02:17 AM Betrayal Trauma the book
indygal Offline

Registered: 06/22/06
Posts: 439
this book is just so incredible - wow - it's by Jennifer J. Freyd, and from the very start she emphasizes this is a book about memory, not sexual abuse.

with that said, she goes on to discuss her theory of how memories are processed, learned, encoded, and remembered in the future and how this entire procedure is effected by different traumas, especially childhood sexual abuse.

this is not an easy read; both for the case histories she recites as well as the many analyses she does, complete with numbers and a biblography.

however, it is written for virtually everyone; suvivors, partners, therapists, other interested parties.

she makes her points in a very logical and methodical way; she explains her theory about betrayal - such as when a parent abuses a child - and how it effects memories on a cognitive level, explaining even such difficult concepts as dissociation and out of body experiences.

she even explains how and why therapy can (or sometimes cannot and does not) help a survivor; as well as why disclosure can be so difficult simply from a cognitive level.

if you are a person who needs to know why something is the way it is, or why someone is the way they are, this explains a great deal in a manner that is all encompassing, that is, she starts from the very basics of how memory is formed, the event and how it may effect that memory and then how in the future how the person's mind would retrieve the memory (or not).

personally, understanding the why's of a situation is critical in my decision making process of how i will react. if you have a lot of unanswered questions about csa, you might want to read this book.


my avatar is one of the Battle Angel characters, fighting the good fight.

#139459 - 01/30/07 02:52 AM Re: Betrayal Trauma the book [Re: indygal]
sweet-n-sour Offline

Registered: 10/03/06
Posts: 409
Loc: chicago
Thanks for the book recommendation. I'll have to check it out...I'm always seeking to learn more.
Best Wishes,

"As long as he continues to try, I will meet him in that determination and commitment."

cm 2007

#243568 - 08/09/08 11:59 PM Re: Betrayal Trauma the book [Re: sweet-n-sour]
indygal Offline

Registered: 06/22/06
Posts: 439

my avatar is one of the Battle Angel characters, fighting the good fight.


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