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#242174 - 08/04/08 01:21 AM Someday...
Liv2124 Offline
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Registered: 08/02/06
Posts: 159
Loc: New Jersey

#242179 - 08/04/08 01:57 AM Re: Someday... [Re: Liv2124]
Lee73 Offline

Registered: 05/26/08
Posts: 32
I'm sorry you are hurting and hope your spirits are lifted soon. You WILL find someone to truly love you someday. I am sure of it. Hang in my friend.


#242239 - 08/04/08 01:26 PM Re: Someday... [Re: Lee73]
Junefriday Offline

Registered: 06/06/08
Posts: 113
Loc: Canada
Liv, the song is wrong about one thing - you ARE that strong \:\)

"Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.

#242245 - 08/04/08 02:07 PM Re: Someday... [Re: Junefriday]
Abigale Offline

Registered: 07/16/08
Posts: 28
Loc: Northern NJ
That song is beautiful and describes exactly how we all feel, but as June said we are all stronger then we think. We can get through this as long as we keep our spirits high. We have to think that they were lucky to have loved us and that someone else will be lucky also. They had the privledge to know us and we have set a memory in their heart forever, whether they realize it or not.

#242259 - 08/04/08 04:25 PM Re: Someday... [Re: Abigale]
NY Daisy Offline
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Registered: 02/29/08
Posts: 183
dear liv, I agree with june, you,we are all strong. The time has come for you to move on. That is not a sign of weakness. This also takes great strength.

Your boyfriend already knows what he has lost. You spent many years together Liv, you must take with you that he did love you. I think he loved you as much as he was mentally, and physically capable of. he gave you more of himself than he did anyone else.

He chose not to seek help, and that was his decision to make. Ultimately, his fear of the having to come to terms with what was done to him, and the pain it would have stirred up, was what did the relationship in, not anything you did or didn't do, nor was it his lack of feeling for you. He let it win in the end, and there was nothing you could do to stop it. It was just to big.

Go and try to find some peace and happiness,you deserve it.


#242271 - 08/04/08 05:18 PM Re: Someday... [Re: NY Daisy]
dangal Offline
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Registered: 02/09/08
Posts: 222
Loc: seattle area
Nydaisy, always, always seems to say it for my comment please see above. Go and try to find some peace and happiness, you deserve it...well said.

Life is to short to blend in


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