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#230707 - 06/13/08 01:57 PM more
Justintime Offline

Registered: 06/02/08
Posts: 50
how can anyone do this kind of shit to a little kid? i so don't understand and im so mad and frustrated and theres not a thing i can do about it

#230709 - 06/13/08 02:01 PM Re: more [Re: Justintime]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA

I don't think there's any answer to that one. There are of course clinical explanations for why abusers do what they do, but I think you are asking a far deeper question.

There are probably plenty of things you can do about it at some point; there is so much work that needs to be done in the areas of public awareness and information. But I think it's crucial to deal with your own recovery first. You have to have strength for yourself before you have anything to give to others.

Much love,

Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

#230718 - 06/13/08 02:50 PM Re: more [Re: roadrunner]
Justintime Offline

Registered: 06/02/08
Posts: 50
its not fair. it's all i did was give to others no choice nothing ever for me and now i feel selfish because i want some answers

#230720 - 06/13/08 03:01 PM Re: more [Re: Justintime]
JustScott Offline
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Registered: 01/28/08
Posts: 2615
Loc: Central PA
You are right, it's not fair. Not fair at all. You're not selfish for wanting answer. You have a right to any answers you can get.

All this questioning and asking and what not, it's all good. Each one is a little step ahead.

Keep steppin!

#230729 - 06/13/08 03:25 PM Re: more [Re: JustScott]
Justintime Offline

Registered: 06/02/08
Posts: 50
No its not fair and it sucks, i wish i could go back in time and ask why, why my parents sold me for their drugs, why my foster parents thought it was ok to hurt me like they did and why everyone, or i should say every adult or person older than me that i ever met thought it was ok to fuck me over, like i had some big sign on me that i couldnt see but everyone else could, they all just thought it was ok to use me however they wished, like once it happens once people can just tell somehow, might as well get theres too. and even now that im older, the only person hurting me now is me, but how do I stop when I feel so fucking worthless.


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