I have no idea why people confuse being camp and being gay, it just seems like the standard gender sterriotypes to me.

I have one friend, who dresses in very bright clothes, has long hair, and actually walks around calling everyone "my dear" and often saying how beautiful people aree.

Heck, he's even a counter tenor and thus sinse in falsetto.

However, he is most deffinately not gay, for all that many people seem to assume he is.

while doing my degree, I knew a chap who was in to logic and crytical thought, was imotionally distant, had incredibly short hair and was on the colidge rowing team. After knowing him for 18 months it turned out he was gay, and I only found out from a mutual friend.

the hole thing seems incredibly bizarre.