aw trish, he is just mimicking the voices in his own head, and merely saying what he is thinking and feeling about himself, that's all. he's stuck doing that because he does not know any other way to view other humans. that's his ole shadow talking.
i used to do that, and that was part of my 'worst of times' when my value system was way, way outta whack: he, like so many of us humans, has come to own the belief that if people don't act a certain way, or do things a certain, or speak a certain way etc, they are 'flawed'. after all, everybody knows there is only ONE 'right way' to be. if you wanna know what that is, just go ask anybody who cares to impress their own viewpoint on the rest us misguided sheeple. i am sure they will be more than glad to diagnose our particular band of moron-ism, and write a perfect pre>
Ron Schulz, MSPC, NCC