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#2273 - 08/01/04 06:22 PM Re: Weak is not bad
yesac76 Offline

Registered: 03/23/04
Posts: 508
Loc: Idaho
I think admitting you need help or are weak takes alot of strength. I still have a hard time accepting help, and asking for it is like pulling teeth. But, I am human. I have weaknesses, I need other people. Hard to admit, but it's the very nature of us human beings.

"You live it or lie it" Metallica

#2274 - 08/01/04 08:40 PM Re: Weak is not bad
Bill_1965 Offline
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Registered: 06/29/03
Posts: 1984
Loc: Flint, Michigan
It is hard to admit our own weakness, both to ourselves and others.

To ourselves it admits our frailities. We aren't as strong as we would like ourselves to be.

To admit them to others leaves us with a fear that they will exploit that weakness to hurt us.

On the other hand. Admitting our weakness to others can provide protection to that missing piece of the armour.

Take care,

Pain is Temporary; Quitting lasts Forever. - Lance Armstrong

#2275 - 08/04/04 06:42 PM Re: Weak is not bad
Leosha Offline

Registered: 06/18/03
Posts: 3614
Loc: Right here
There is no courage without fear. I truly believe that. And I think there can be no strength without weakness. Because really, for someone such as yourself, such as other men here, strength is what you have. Strength is what you are. For someone as strong as you, 'normal' behavior feels weak. You are not weak. But even you were, you are right. Weak is not bad.

Take good care,

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"Human salvation lies in the hands of the creatively maladjusted."~~~Martin Luther King Jr., 1963

#2276 - 08/05/04 01:50 PM Re: Weak is not bad
Aden Offline

Registered: 07/05/04
Posts: 499
Sometimes admitting that I needed help is the only thing that has kept me alive. I hate it when that happens!


#2277 - 08/05/04 02:13 PM Re: Weak is not bad
Dan88 Offline

Registered: 08/07/02
Posts: 247
Loc: DC
That's a great point, Marc. A good reminder for me. Thanks for sharing it. When I get into the deep weeds, it's usually because I'm too proud to ask for help.


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