I just want to thank everyone again for their comments. I was in a very low place when I wrote this and I seem to be coming out of it. I could write pages and pages of philosophical crap about how, really, there is no such thing as "the self" and that what I think of as "myself" is really a complex of relations with other things, but I'll spare you. \:\)

Two things that I know I have to work on are boundaries and acceptance of limitations - to set limits for myself to define myself and to accept that I can't control everything. Easier said than done, but the past couple days I've had more success by consciously trying to do this.



We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.
~ Oscar Wilde