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#231425 - 06/17/08 06:51 AM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: Barkabus]
JasonSmalls Offline

Registered: 12/01/07
Posts: 142
Loc: NJ
I don't want to know any why's, because you know what? His answer is probably so screwed up and sick just like the things he did to me.

I want revenge. I don't want to do it to him. I don't think I could. But I want him to feel all the things he made me feel back then and all I things I feel now. I don't get something... how come when somebody who actually perpetrates the offense doesn't have a problem living his life afterwards? Everybody he meets and knows truly believes he's a nice guy because he's kind and so good with children. Yeah, no shit!

The people who suffer are the ones who were really innocent and didn't want any of this to happen. I thin a good revenge would be everybody, no matter where he goes or what he does, they will know the truth and they will look at him as a monster, in the same sort of way people look at me as being a freak.


#231427 - 06/17/08 07:10 AM Re: what do you want from your abuser. *DELETED* [Re: JasonSmalls]
charles law Offline

Registered: 06/04/08
Posts: 28
Loc: perth australia
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#231492 - 06/17/08 04:59 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: charles law]
charles law Offline

Registered: 06/04/08
Posts: 28
Loc: perth australia
I do still tho wish she would still say sorry to me and my brothers and sis.. and for my dad to have stood up for us as his children and not hide behind her. Bit I know that wont ever happen I am still in shock really she working as a carer in the asian community and doing so well what happened tho is she all of a sudden caring for others? what happening

#231518 - 06/17/08 08:04 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: justanother121]
pufferfish Offline

Registered: 02/26/08
Posts: 6875
Loc: USA
Recompense due from my abuser:

About $70,000 for counseling plus compound interest.

About $1,000,000 for damages for personal pain

About $1,000,000 (estimated) for job troubles and terminations and oportunities which never developed because I was squashed like a bug.

Total over a quarter million smackers.

I'll never get it. The one abused is obliged to forgive all indebtedness.


#231541 - 06/18/08 12:32 AM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: pufferfish]
InjunE Offline

Registered: 12/04/01
Posts: 89
Loc: Ohio
I'm not a cruel man. I would like for them to receive a quick, painless death. It wouldn't change how I am now, but it would assure they never hurt any others again.

Without my sons, I would not be here.

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