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#221302 - 04/29/08 06:42 AM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Power_water]
Magoo Offline

Registered: 04/04/08
Posts: 48
Loc: far, far away

#1 Male- Don't know where he is but must be 75 now. Probably still molesting little kids somewhere. Hope he's suffering.

#2 Female - she has to be at least 60, hope shes dead.

#221308 - 04/29/08 07:39 AM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Magoo]
alexey Offline
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Registered: 08/16/05
Posts: 1677
Loc: Moscow, Russia
The crowd of three. Their fate is unknown to me. I am afraid they abused more kids.

I don't even know how to find them, and I don't feel comfortable walking in the village and asking.

When you feel all alone and unhappy, turn to you Inner Child and talk to Him.
You will see He can comfort you like nothing else!

#221505 - 04/29/08 09:03 PM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Hauser]
RobertRent Offline

Registered: 04/29/08
Posts: 11
My prep were in their 50's and 60's. So I think most of them are dead now.

#367579 - 08/07/11 01:02 AM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: JerrySan]
SamV Offline

Registered: 12/13/09
Posts: 5972
Loc: Sunnny, South East USA
Mine is out of my life, on purpose. I moved 900 miles away from them, and I am getting better and stronger everyday.

1)The two physical abusers, Wisconsin
2)The oldest sister, incest sexual abuse, somewhere in Wisconsin
3)A complete stranger, a man that fondled me, drunk in a ditch in Wisconsin, most likely.

May they find recovery, may they quell their demons, may they find the power to tell me they were wrong.

To the survivors of this heinous act:
1)My dear sister T**e, you were hurt by a man your parents trusted, you were simply imitating, I believe you are hurt.
2)My dear sister, N**e, may you rest in peace, having passed in a drunken car accident, in chaos over the abuse, I love you.
3)My dear brother T**m, may you find the courage to look inside, take the hand of that terrified little boy, and nurture him to health and safety.


Edited by sasuva (08/07/11 01:13 AM)
Edit Reason: I should remember the survivors, damn the perps..
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#367580 - 08/07/11 01:11 AM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: SamV]
Anthony39 Offline

Registered: 02/15/07
Posts: 345
Loc: Montreal, Canada
perp #1 Been dead for 10 years.
perp #2 I don't know, in his 70's if still alive.

Look up and not down; look forward and not back; look out and not in; and lend a hand.
E. E. Hale

#367587 - 08/07/11 04:15 AM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Anthony39]
Kaene Offline

Registered: 07/04/11
Posts: 40
Loc: Ausin, TX
Perp 1: He is currently in a mental institution. I heard a few years ago that he was confronted by the police while running around a nature park in the buff. Didn't suprise me, I knew that kid was seriously disturbed even before the abuse started.

Perp 2: I just recently denied a facebook friend request from him. Last I heard he was suffering from multiple addictions and was down and out in my home town. I find it really hard to hate him because I know that P3 probably abused him before they started on me.

Perp 3: Can't remember his name, I can see his face, but search as I can through old yearbooks and stuff I've never been able to find him. Can't say that I really want to find him anyway.

Perp 4: My brother is living in Las Vegas now and is a succesful manager of a warehouse. I love my brother and I'm glad he's doing well, but at the same time it makes me really bitter. Where does he get off being so able to cope and deal with life, when I'm this shattered, worthless piece of crap!?

Perp 5: Never saw him before, never saw him since. This one rips me up inside. After years of reading about violent crime, I know that he was a rapist who was quickly escalating in the violence department. How many people has he killed because I wasn't strong enough to speak out. I know it's not my fault, but then again, why do I feel so sick about it?

"Do you think God lets you plea bargain?" - Calvin & Hobbes

#445979 - 08/30/13 08:34 PM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Still]
SoccerStar Offline

Registered: 10/15/12
Posts: 929

Since someone else brought back the "single characteristic" thread, I figure this could use a little more access for newer members too. So....

Assisted living facility in Hingham, MA, though at 92 hopefully not there much longer. His daughter still lives in the house that he lived in the year he abused me.
My story

"Don't think it hasn't been a little slice of Heaven just because it hasn't!" --Bugs Bunny

#445981 - 08/30/13 09:16 PM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Still]
DavoSwim Offline

Registered: 02/06/13
Posts: 397
Loc: Midwest
Two of my four abusers are dead. The other two I've lost track of. I've tried googling them and got no results

#445983 - 08/30/13 09:51 PM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Still]
Onesimus75 Offline

Registered: 08/22/13
Posts: 158
Loc: Minnesota
1] Unknown. Nationally famous camp so he could be anywhere. He'd be in his early 40's.
2] ? He'd be about 50+. Hopefully in prison/treatment somewhere.
3] Works in publishing back in our hometown in Ohio, late 30's.
We are not defined by our faults, or our wounds, but by the truth within us, which nothing can take away.

#445985 - 08/30/13 10:05 PM ! [Re: Still]
Smalltown80sBoy Offline

Registered: 03/26/12
Posts: 2217

Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (03/01/14 02:35 AM)

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