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#216508 - 04/08/08 12:07 PM Two good days
VN Offline

Registered: 06/03/05
Posts: 723
I have had two 'good' days. Not flashbacks, able to sleep (some) without nightmares or waking up harming myself. Not so depressed. Still feeling some loss, some pain of that, but it is not so heavy as it was before. I am enjoying work, and enjoying my volunteer work.

It maybe do not seem as so much, but after the difficulties and pain of last two months or so, the two good days to me, it is worth of a post on its own.


#216513 - 04/08/08 12:21 PM Re: Two good days [Re: VN]
Still Offline

Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 7011
Loc: FEMA Region 1

#216534 - 04/08/08 01:29 PM Re: Two good days [Re: Still]
LandOfShadow Offline

Registered: 12/11/07
Posts: 684
Loc: Minneapolis, Minnesota USA
That is so good to hear VN! Yeah! ! ! ! ! ! !

Any thoughts about how, what might have contributed to that? Or does it just seem like feeling good fell from the sky?

Et par le pouvoir d’un mot Je recommence ma vie, Je suis né pour te connaître, Pour te nommer

And by the power of a single word I can begin my life again, I was born to know you, to name you

Paul Eluard

#216553 - 04/08/08 02:03 PM Re: Two good days [Re: LandOfShadow]
Happy Birthday TJ jeff Offline


Registered: 08/07/04
Posts: 3538
Loc: Northern Wisconsin
Yes VN - this is very much good news that is very much worth a post here to share - am glad that work and volunteering are both going well

Who will cry for the little boy? - I will... - Antwone Fisher

Abuse happens in silence/isolation - Recovery happens only when that silence/isolation is broken...

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#216808 - 04/09/08 12:49 PM Re: Two good days [Re: TJ jeff]
alexey Offline
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Registered: 08/16/05
Posts: 1674
Loc: Moscow, Russia
Glad for you, Visha.

Take care,


When you feel all alone and unhappy, turn to you Inner Child and talk to Him.
You will see He can comfort you like nothing else!

#217167 - 04/10/08 08:46 PM Re: Two good days [Re: alexey]
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Registered: 06/03/05
Posts: 723
Thank you, all to respond. It is odd, I am still having good enough days, it is just the nights that are quite crazy. But at least that, even, it is something better then how things was before.



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