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#215519 - 04/05/08 08:22 AM Abandonment Issues
awakening Offline

Registered: 01/01/08
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Edited by awakening (10/01/08 08:25 AM)

#215526 - 04/05/08 09:15 AM Re: Abandonment Issues [Re: awakening]
des6263 Offline
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Registered: 09/15/06
Posts: 137
Loc: midwest, US
I don't have much to offer as insight. I just wanted to say how sorry I am that you have had to feel such abandonment, you deserved so much better.

Peace and Love

May the Flames of Truth Burn Bright

#215527 - 04/05/08 09:20 AM Re: Abandonment Issues [Re: awakening]
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Registered: 12/02/07
Posts: 383
Loc: georgia
My first memory (3-4 yrs)is of standing behind a door while my mother threw plates and anything else breakable while screaming at my dad in the next room, next thing I know me and my two sisters are living with a widowed stepgrandmother. a few years later they got together for a year and there were several fights and both of them would leave us with a grandparent. from the first grade on we lived with our widowed maternal grandfather. My mother would come back into town every few months but she would have a fight with whatever guy she was with and be gone again.

Anytime some one close to me is angry or obviously unhappy, I experience the same dread that they are going to leave me. Luckely, I can talk with my wife about it and clear up the emotional dread but I still have that initial response with anyone's anger.

I'm a freeman now, his authority's dead
no pain monger lies in my comfortable bed!


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