I think the true test of character is doing what we know to be right in our hearts before God. It really does not matter how we get here or what kind of desires we end up saddled with. I thought for a long time I was born gay. In the end I realized it didn't matter. I made a committment to my wife and a vow before God. I will honor that vow and committment regardless of how I feel or what desires I have. When I settled on that choice there was a gradual peace that came to me and a strength to follow through with that. I never had that before. I have not regretted that decision either. There is something about doing the right thing that is wonderfully calming and peace giving. Can't speak for anyone else but I know it was right for me.