I have a real need for this subject matter to be discussed frankly and openly.
I can’t be the only one who has negative feelings towards sex who needs to learn, see that sex can be a positive experience.
My own response to sex is skewered by and intertwined with my abusers views on sex.
I want to enjoy sex, but after a certain point I am left feeling ‘dirty & disgusting’ by what is going on.
Rather than disappoint my partner, I feel I have to continue & so I just ‘go thru the motions’,
which in turn just re-enforces the negative feelings I have of myself and of sex.
What side of the coin do you fall ~ negative or positive ?
How does one get from where I am now to a point where there is actually some pleasure in experiencing sex ?