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#209655 - 03/09/08 04:02 AM Re: Do I have what it takes as a man? [Re: king tut]
Freedom49 Offline

Registered: 12/31/07
Posts: 2724
Loc: Washington State
Lewis, you continue to amaze me. While this was hard for my old head to follow I have to say I agree with your logic. It is not all black and white. Like all the deep true things of this life it is complicated. I do like that last quote. The harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph. I thought about that today when for some reason it was feeling very hard. I can do this. It will be that much sweeter a victory because of the difficulty of it and because I know what it cost me, pride will not be a problem.
Thank you for that encouragement.

Edited by Freedom49 (03/09/08 04:03 AM)

#209668 - 03/09/08 08:11 AM Re: Do I have what it takes as a man? [Re: spirit of winter]
Barney Offline

Registered: 07/31/06
Posts: 236
Loc: Southern Utah/Northern Arizon
Hey Spirit,

Beautifully written and well stated. I can relate to the place your in as well to Freedom's position. Your both doing great. Keep it up, stay close and focus on what you want vs what you don't have.


#209731 - 03/09/08 08:01 PM Re: Do I have what it takes as a man? [Re: Barney]
spirit of winter Offline
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Registered: 02/09/08
Posts: 19
Loc: Weaver Alabama
Thanks for the encouragement. It means a lot to know that i am not alone, and others feel the same as i do. And i also like what King Tut said. even though the foundation was built strong, some of the walls are crooked, now is restoration time.

Best wishes to eveyone!

I want to be me. I want to be whole. I want to be the loving person me and my wife and family deserve. Mostly I want to feel like I deserve to live without fear of people, of who I am, of intimacy, and without fear of a past I canít change.

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