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#200236 - 01/19/08 08:23 PM Why do I need to say this?
mogigo Offline

Registered: 04/25/07
Posts: 1331
Loc: Colorado
I was thinking about my Mom, she passed away just over a year ago and when I was lost in the thought of her I found myself saying over and over again "I'm sorry for being a man".

I feel like I should apoligize for being born male

It's doing a number on me, what the fuck!!!???

Stay strong


#200240 - 01/19/08 08:36 PM Re: Why do I need to say this? [Re: mogigo]
alexey Offline
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Registered: 08/16/05
Posts: 1677
Loc: Moscow, Russia
Mike, I think you are pushing yourself to the feeling of fault you could make in thepast when the abuse happened.

Take it easy. You are a human being, who cares man or woman. You deserve life.


When you feel all alone and unhappy, turn to you Inner Child and talk to Him.
You will see He can comfort you like nothing else!

#200504 - 01/21/08 01:03 PM Re: Why do I need to say this? *DELETED* [Re: alexey]
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Registered: 01/01/08
Posts: 342
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#200506 - 01/21/08 01:13 PM Re: Why do I need to say this? [Re: awakening]
Freedom49 Offline

Registered: 12/31/07
Posts: 2724
Loc: Washington State
I am so sorry mogigo. She was wrong to say that and hurt you. In her pain she struck out at you and left and wound that you have had trouble healing. As parents we have no idea how deeply a child is wounded my our words. The venom we spit out in our own pain can inflict hurt and sores that last a life time. Heal my from mogigo. You are a man and it is good.


#200615 - 01/22/08 12:03 AM Re: Why do I need to say this? [Re: Freedom49]
mvnforwrd Offline

Registered: 12/06/07
Posts: 216
Loc: NJ
Noone should have to hear those words. But I can say you are a good person regardless of your gender or what your mother wanted your gender to be. Male or Female you are a person and a good person. I like to break things down and one of those things is to look at everyone as a person. every person has a heart. and hearts get broken regardless if you have a dick or tits.


Take your foot out of yesterday and your other foot out of tomorro or you will keep pissing allover today!


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