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#199352 - 01/14/08 03:20 AM Hi.
NoOneImportant Offline

Registered: 01/11/08
Posts: 36
HowdeeDoo! <==== me putting on my "I'm ok" face.

Just wanting to say hi. I'm obviously new here. I've had some opporunity to talk to a few people here, and I have to say, it's been a big help.

I'm not a trusting person at all, and yet I've already shared far more than I thought I ever would. Those I've been talking to have just made me feel safe I guess. Thanks :-)

My wife was just saying today that she wished I would have dealt with all this back before we got married. I had to tell her that if anyone had told me I'd been hurt (fingers always lock up when I try to type the A word. Go figure) that I'd have told them they were nuts. Went so long feeling like it was my fault. That I was the one responsible. Feeling like a worthless aweful person hiding behind a mask of decency.

#199353 - 01/14/08 03:35 AM Re: Hi. [Re: NoOneImportant]
weapher Offline

Registered: 12/11/07
Posts: 60
Loc: Oregon
Hey there nooneimportant... welcome. I am very private too and agree with you.. wish this could have been resolved before all of the wedded bliss...

Know that there are many here who get it!

Try the chat room if you haven't already... good folks there too.

Hang tough

btw... your name is by no means the amount of your value... you are very important!

Facing the struggle makes you strong.

#199368 - 01/14/08 05:15 AM Re: Hi. [Re: weapher]
Brian Offline
Moderator Emeritus
Registered: 05/03/01
Posts: 1563
Loc: Upstate NY
Welcome to Male Survivor! I'm glad that you finally found us!

Recovery is Possible!

#199385 - 01/14/08 08:33 AM Re: Hi. [Re: Brian]
Scoutvictim Offline

Registered: 06/04/07
Posts: 434
Loc: St. Louis, Missouri

See other people think the same about your name.... nah nah poo poo, told you so. \:D

This place can be an amazing relief, and I hope you will continue to participate.

You sound like you are making yourself at home, just don't worry about trying to fit in. You are now one of the brothers here, and it's up to you to make the best of it.

Hope to talk to you soon.

Luv ya,

Shawn and Ben will always be in my heart....

Happiness is like peeing your pants; Everyone can see it, but only YOU feel the warmth.

Peebles, Ohio WOR alumni, Oct. 2007

#199417 - 01/14/08 03:20 PM Re: Hi. [Re: Scoutvictim]
AndyJB2005 Offline

Registered: 11/14/06
Posts: 1249
Loc: Minnesota
Welcome here, NoOne! I'm glad you found us. \:\)

Life's disappointments are harder to take when you don't know any swear words. -- Calvin (Calvin and Hobbes)


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