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#199210 - 01/12/08 08:42 PM Incest forum + chat?
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Registered: 01/12/08
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Anyone here knows of any other websites for incest survivors that has a chat room?


#199259 - 01/13/08 04:42 AM Re: Incest forum + chat? [Re: none]
Nathan LaChine Offline

Registered: 02/22/03
Posts: 5427
Loc: Washington State

I do not know of any other websites geared towards male survivors of sexual abuse. I know that this topic does come up rather often sadly. I know that I have been personally involved in several chats around this subject. Have you started a thread on this topic as of yet? Have you been into our chatroom? I am sure that you can have very supportive and friendly chats here and in chat.


#199300 - 01/13/08 06:08 PM Re: Incest forum + chat? [Re: Nathan LaChine]
Danbuff Offline

Registered: 08/03/07
Posts: 249
Loc: NY state
I too experienced incest as well as other CSA. I have found this site enormously helpful and have found a generous therapist who has helped me work on this pain and confusion. You would think I would have some amzing insights here but the truth is I don't. I only know it is not our fault and it scarred me like all the others. It is a bigger violation and hurt when it is familial and you are confused and trapped in shame and secrecy. But it is not your fault.

Talking , journaling and praying helped me but tears and going through the range of emotions help. My dad was dying when I confronted him and could not respond, while my brother denies it. I am in a place of actually forgiving them now.

Don't compare me to your story because we are two different people. This is the hardest work I have ever done but it is worth doing. I hope this helps. PM me any time and I will do my best at responding. You are in the best place I know of. You will be heard and respected.


When you stumble, make it part of the dance.


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