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#197843 - 01/04/08 01:47 PM Re: Acting Out [Re: dancr6]
LandOfShadow Offline

Registered: 12/11/07
Posts: 684
Loc: Minneapolis, Minnesota USA
Thanks dancr6,
That makes sense to me. Actually, it's spooky how much sense it makes to me. Only, I'm not sure, but I wonder if I never got the memo \:\) . I shouldn't joke, but sometimes I just have to. I think lots of things have been sexualized for me, and I've never untangled them. I'm glad for you that you were able to discern when it wasn't right for you and just wait for it to pass.

Actually, I was responding to evanescense, though what you're saying "speaks to me".

Et par le pouvoir d’un mot Je recommence ma vie, Je suis né pour te connaître, Pour te nommer

And by the power of a single word I can begin my life again, I was born to know you, to name you

Paul Eluard

#197880 - 01/04/08 05:57 PM Re: Acting Out [Re: LandOfShadow]
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Registered: 12/02/07
Posts: 383
Loc: georgia
Trust me on this, it wasn't without a lot of self disgust.(i am not disgusted by anyone elses sexuality) For the most part I didn't know it would get easier, I just plugged along thinkig nothing but feeling ignorant, just reacting until one time it struck me that it just wasn't working. One of the things I have to attribute to "divine influence" no other way for me to describe it.
(I am a spiritually minded person but not a religious person just to clarify!:-)
I still sexualize inappropriately, I just don't act on it. If my orientation was different I'm sure this whole issue would be a lot more coomplicated.

I'm a freeman now, his authority's dead
no pain monger lies in my comfortable bed!

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