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#196766 - 12/27/07 12:29 AM Abuse at late age
RiffenstRiffRaff Offline
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Registered: 12/27/07
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Loc: Northern VA

Hi,

I was sexually abused by a woman when I was 18. I am looking for people who have a similar experience. Also, I have done a lot of work in this area, e.g. attending conferences, reading technical literature, talking with therapists, etc., All that I have found is research on effects of abuse at a younger age. Any references ...

Dr. Pete


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#196770 - 12/27/07 03:05 AM Re: Abuse at late age [Re: RiffenstRiffRaff]
OKIE MIKE Offline
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I was reped at the age of 18 while I was serving in the US Army
by another Male Soldger . Tell me what You want to know

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#196841 - 12/27/07 04:18 PM Re: Abuse at late age [Re: OKIE MIKE]
alexey Offline
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Registered: 08/16/05
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Loc: Moscow, Russia
Dr,

Welcome to MS.

I didn't have such experiences, but I encourage you to stay here and interract with guys. Some of Male Survivors here (in fact, many of them) were abused by women.

Alexey

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#196852 - 12/27/07 06:54 PM Re: Abuse at late age [Re: alexey]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA
Pete,

Welcome to MaleSurvivior. I'm glad you have found us and I'm sure you will be received with a lot of understanding and support here. Concerning your question, we have guys here who were abused by women, and others (including me) who were abused as young adults, but I'm not sure if there is anyone else here who is in exactly the same situation that you are. But that's okay. Your issues are important and we will be happy to hear you talk about them whenever you feel you can do so.

Much love,
Larry

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As I go walking my freedom highway.
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#196856 - 12/27/07 07:06 PM Re: Abuse at late age [Re: roadrunner]
mogigo Offline
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Registered: 04/24/07
Posts: 1331
Loc: Colorado
Hey Pete, I was 15 when I was raped by a woman, I also have not found anything specific in my information searches about older experiences. I've found that most of the issues though are similar to what they've said about childhood assaults. Course I wasn't really an adult either.

Welcome to MS Pete, sorry you need it, glad your here.
Mike

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