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#195107 - 12/13/07 08:34 PM "Just Get Over It"
Bobby Offline

Registered: 12/01/04
Posts: 1287
Loc: Arizona
When I "just get over it" will it suddenly stop hurting
Will that heavy place in my chest suddenly go away
Will I not cry at odd times, not knowing why tears are streaming down my cheeks
Will I not envy/be happy for/be fearful for laughing children all at the same time

When I "just get over it" will I forget he didn't love me
Will the look of disappointment in his eyes go away
Will I forget that he never said he loved me
Will I be able to walk by my closet without seeing myself hiding there inside

When I " just get over it" will the drugs I'm on for depression suddenly not be necessary
Will I suddenly develop wonderful self-esteem
Will my sexuality suddenly be clear to me
Will I not be shy, not be afraid of men

When I "just get over it" will daisies spring up around my feet when I walk
Will the sun come out bright every single morning
Will birds sing sweetly as I go out to get into my car to go to work
Will everyone smile and wave to me as I drive down the street

Hmmmm............sounds really good to me

I think I'll "just get over it"

I'm healing now, and I wasn't sure I would.

#195112 - 12/13/07 08:55 PM Re: "Just Get Over It" [Re: Bobby]
buzz_key Offline

Registered: 03/31/07
Posts: 635
Loc: USA
that's good Bobby.
thank you for sharing that with us.


#195116 - 12/13/07 09:53 PM Re: "Just Get Over It" [Re: buzz_key]
Still Offline

Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 7011
Loc: FEMA Region 1
Bobby, this one needs to be published in every newspaper in the country.

#195148 - 12/14/07 01:24 AM Re: "Just Get Over It" *DELETED* [Re: Bobby]
nicky Offline

Registered: 08/24/07
Posts: 261
Post deleted by nicky

i like the rain cause no one knows im crying

a strong man is one who is able to control himself when he is angry
what is your definiton of control?

i lay awake another hour
just like the one before
the shadows play a game with my head
i can't take this anymore

#195189 - 12/14/07 11:47 AM Re: "Just Get Over It" [Re: nicky]
dancr6 Offline

Registered: 12/02/07
Posts: 383
Loc: georgia
That is incredible!!!
beautiful flow and a gentle rebuttal to that often heard (naive) answer to all our pain and confusion. Hmmm sounds good to me too Bobby, Thanks.

I'm a freeman now, his authority's dead
no pain monger lies in my comfortable bed!

#195348 - 12/15/07 02:13 PM Re: "Just Get Over It" [Re: dancr6]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA

All I can do is echo what the others have said. You have again spoken for all of us. Thanks.

Much love,

Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

#195595 - 12/17/07 01:17 AM Re: "Just Get Over It" [Re: roadrunner]
dancr6 Offline

Registered: 12/02/07
Posts: 383
Loc: georgia
Bobby, I would like your permission to print this out and put on my cork board at work.
Nothing will give notice of where it came from other than me saying, "my brother"
I understand if you say no and will honor your decision.

I'm a freeman now, his authority's dead
no pain monger lies in my comfortable bed!


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