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#189493 - 11/01/07 03:58 PM Got to take a break...
beccy Offline

Registered: 05/28/06
Posts: 449
Loc: england
Last night in session with my T, she suggested I might think about taking a break from this place for a couple of weeks.......I can see why she has suggested it and I am going to take her advice and see what kind of affect it has on things, but I will miss everyone here.....

I do hope to return soon, but just in case it turns out it would be better for me not to, I just wanted to say thankyou to everyone who has offered their support and wish everyone well in their journeys.

Take care all

#189495 - 11/01/07 04:16 PM Re: Got to take a break... [Re: beccy]
kellygtx Offline

Registered: 07/11/07
Posts: 412
Loc: Texas, USA
Beccy -

Much Peace and Love to you my friend...

I bid you Peace.


The time is always NOW. Breath In. Breath Out. Move On.

#189498 - 11/01/07 04:29 PM Re: Got to take a break... [Re: kellygtx]
Trish4850 Offline
BoD Liaison Emeritus

Registered: 10/15/05
Posts: 3280
Loc: New Jersey

Of course you have to do what's right for you. When and if you decide to return, you know the door is always open. I wish you the best.


If you fall down 10 times, Stand up 11.

#189522 - 11/01/07 08:46 PM Re: Got to take a break... [Re: Trish4850]
mmac Offline

Registered: 09/21/07
Posts: 107
Loc: PA
Take care of you, girlfriend...
that should always be your #1 priority (and your kids if you have any).
Our prayers go with you...

"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over, and expecting different results."

I cannot take your steps, but I can walk beside you, if you'll let me.

#189523 - 11/01/07 08:46 PM Re: Got to take a break... [Re: Trish4850]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA

Always do what's best for your own needs and priorities here. I look forward to seeing you back here once again, if that's what's best for you. Otherwise, do well and godspeed.

Much love,

Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

#189560 - 11/02/07 12:08 AM Re: Got to take a break... [Re: roadrunner]
selene Offline

Registered: 11/10/06
Posts: 221
Loc: midwest
.. beccy ... take care of yourself ... i do wish you the very best either way ...

hugs \:\)

"And now here is my secret, a very simple secret; it is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye." ~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery from The Little Prince

#189619 - 11/02/07 06:09 AM Re: Got to take a break... [Re: selene]
WalkingSouth Offline

Registered: 08/30/05
Posts: 16270
Loc: Waldport, Oregon

Just sending a thanks for the insight and wisdom you've posted here from time to time. We hope to see you again, but if not we certainly understand. Best wishes wherever your life takes you.

Lots of love,


"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting 'Holy Shit! What a ride!'" ~Hunter S. Thompson

#189623 - 11/02/07 07:15 AM Re: Got to take a break... [Re: WalkingSouth]
Grunty1967b Offline

Registered: 07/28/05
Posts: 861
Loc: Australia

Seen you here. Havenít had a lot of interaction as far as I recall, but I see a very healthy thing here that youíre doing. Youíre taking care of yourself in the best way you see fit.

Thereís progress and victory right there. Well done!

If you get to come back that will be great. If not, keep on keeping on!

#189669 - 11/02/07 03:51 PM Re: Got to take a break... [Re: Grunty1967b]
Agape Girl Offline

Registered: 07/25/07
Posts: 120
Loc: New Jersey, USA
((((((( Beccy))))))))))

Take care of yourself...Your in my thoughts for sure!


means selfless love of one person for another
without sexual implications
(especially love that is spiritual in nature)

#189692 - 11/02/07 06:04 PM Re: Got to take a break... [Re: Agape Girl]
honey girl Offline

Registered: 10/09/06
Posts: 245
Loc: Midwest US
Hey, Beccy--
I will say I can understand the merit of taking a break; there are many ways in which the information on the site, along with the discussions, can be very emotionally demanding, I have found. No fault involved--it's just difficult. So give yourself credit for setting limits as you find appropriate.
I'm happy to have been in dialogue with you these past months. Best of luck to you in the next stage of your journey, no matter where it takes you.

I'm just a poor wayfaring stranger, a million miles away from home.


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