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#187266 - 10/15/07 03:38 PM it hurts so much
anyway90 Offline

Registered: 05/26/07
Posts: 148
it hurts so does....nobody can help me....nobody cares...nobody can give me money to see a t...all the therapists suck....everyone is in denial....nobody cares except a bunch of guys from doomed.

#187268 - 10/15/07 03:41 PM Re: it hurts so much [Re: anyway90]
FormerTexan Offline

Registered: 09/12/04
Posts: 12125
Loc: Denver, CO

It sounds like a horrible day for you. I wouldn't say doomed, but I know it can sure feel that way.


Money talks, but all it tells me is goodbye.

If I could meet myself as a boy...

#187278 - 10/15/07 05:08 PM Re: it hurts so much [Re: FormerTexan]
dgoods Offline

Registered: 10/15/07
Posts: 622
Loc: Richmond area
Hello all,
Brandy-new and nervous as hell, but picked this topic because those four words pretty much cover it for me right now...
Please point me to the dumb-questions-from-newbies section so I don't upset anyone by accident.

Give sorrow words: the grief that does not speak
Whispers the o'er-fraught heart and bids it break.

-William Shakespeare, Macbeth, Act IV, Sc. III

#187280 - 10/15/07 05:33 PM Re: it hurts so much [Re: dgoods]
dannym Offline

Registered: 03/25/07
Posts: 543
Loc: Boulder, Colorado
You are in the perfect section dgoods, and there truly are NO dumb questions.

Welcome to the site... I was very nervous when I first posted (truthfully, still get that way sometimes \:\) ) But the men here are amazingly supportive. Don't worry about upsetting people, just speak your mind and say as little or as much as is comfortable.

Again, glad to have you here.


"You should listen to your heart, and not the voices in your head."

Marge Simpson

#187322 - 10/15/07 09:35 PM Re: it hurts so much [Re: dgoods]
saint-of-Lost-Causes Offline

Registered: 10/13/07
Posts: 57
Loc: Michigan
I agree with danny, the only stupid question is the one you don't ask!

We accept the love we think we deserve!

#187338 - 10/16/07 01:17 AM Re: it hurts so much [Re: anyway90]
BJK Offline

Registered: 08/02/07
Posts: 1526
I know it hurts.

I don't know what I can say to you except that I care. And even if you don't believe yourself, I do believe you.


Revenge is nothing more than another way of perpetuating abuse.

What the world needs now
Is some new words of wisdom
Like la la la la la la la la la.
-David Lowery

Having a friend who will keep a secret for you is worthless compared to a friend who won't keep a secret from you.

#187449 - 10/16/07 04:45 PM Re: it hurts so much [Re: BJK]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA

We all feel that way sometimes. But my own experience is that we're never doomed - until we give up.

Much love,

Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)


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