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#184698 - 10/04/07 10:38 PM fluid sexuality
bp83 Offline

Registered: 06/29/06
Posts: 111
Loc: Arkansas
what do you guys think about the gay porn like Sean cody and corbin Fisher where "straight" guys have gay sex for money. Do you believe gay for pay exists or is it just a marketing scheme. If it does really exist, is sexuality really that fluid?


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#184703 - 10/04/07 10:52 PM Re: fluid sexuality [Re: bp83]
rcm Offline

Registered: 08/24/07
Posts: 156
Loc: Boston, MA
i don't think i'd be able to have sex with a woman for money
then again, i am facing some issues related to sexuality that actually push me to repressing my sexuality so who knows
maybe this question should be asked to the straight guys?
if it's something like oral sex, if they are receiving, in the end it's stimulation, no matter who's it coming from
i hope this is not too explicit

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#184707 - 10/04/07 10:58 PM Re: fluid sexuality [Re: rcm]
MemoryVault Offline

Registered: 03/02/07
Posts: 693
Loc: NJ
I've had sexual experiences with women out of curiosity, affection, even some real desire, and had a nice time. It didn't change the fact that I'm gay. I don't think there are a lot of 50-50 bi men out there (I do know women who claim to have no gender preference at all)--but there are a good number of guys with a major preference and some minor "gray area" potential.

Edited by MemoryVault (10/04/07 11:08 PM)

#184711 - 10/04/07 11:16 PM Re: fluid sexuality [Re: MemoryVault]
Lazarus Offline

Registered: 07/01/07
Posts: 851
Loc: Below the radar, USA
Back in the days before the Internet (and when I actually labelled myself as 'bisexual'), I used to cruise the BBS's (Bulletin Board Services, for those of you under 40) and download applications, pictures, all sorts of stuff.

One day, while browsing the applications section of a new BBS that I had found, I came across the following;

WOMAN.EXE "Great program, no documentation..."

I've always found women in general to be like that; a great thing but totally uncomprehensible. So I tried them out, not for pay, but for my own curiosity.

I think Sean Cody and the like use money and other incentives to get guys to explore their curiosity when they otherwise might be too shy to do it on their own. Is it a good thing or a bad thing? Both. As long as Sean stays in the adult world, he has every right to try to make a buck any way he wants. The problem comes when the actors themselves are too young and immature to make the value judgement. Then the money (and/or the other incentives) becomes the pivotal issue, and the Sean Cody's of the world become predators.

Personally thought, I don't like him or his kind.

Just my two cents' worth...


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