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#182285 - 09/25/07 04:46 PM Another Wall Came Down
LadyLuck Offline
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Registered: 07/24/07
Posts: 9
Loc: Maryland
So we broke down another (major) wall last night (with help from healingpartner <3) and I'm just so, so happy that he trusts me enough to tell me any of this. I can't (and won't) get into details, but I feel like one of the few remaining chasms between us has been crossed. He was worried that I'd be angry because he "lied" but I only felt relief. I knew something wasn't right and I could feel him pulling away from me. All I had to do was tell him that I wanted him to tell me whatever it was and wait.

Thankfully, healingpartner was there or else I doubt he'd have told me and would have instead sunk into a string of panic attacks. Thank you so, so, so much! I could sense his relief as well and we spent hours and hours just talking, and I got to know him so much better than before (and I thought I knew him so well! lol)

Anyway, I just wanted to share this little bright spot (as vague as it is, hehehe). I can only hope that I continue to keep and deserve his trust and that others on MS will be as fortunate.


#182291 - 09/25/07 05:08 PM Re: Another Wall Came Down [Re: LadyLuck]
Brokenhearted Offline

Registered: 08/07/06
Posts: 644
Loc: TX
Thank you for sharing this, Lady Luck. It is things like this that make me hang on to the hope. I long for the day when my H's walls come down too.


It were better for him that a millstone were hanged around his neck, and he cast into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones.
Luke 17:2


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