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#173220 - 08/14/07 05:39 PM not feeling like a guy
sportinrucks Offline

Registered: 10/01/04
Posts: 443
Loc: Louisiana
Idk I look in the mirror I see a young guy. But my actions have been not those of a young guy. Afraid of women, afraid of men. Somehow in my mind I just do not feel like other males. Maybe because I have not been taught how to be one, maybe because I have not had sex in years, maybe because Ive been outcasted by them why? I dont know. ''Stop being a pussy''. I dont know where else to put this or who to ask right now so Im posting it here on this board.

#173221 - 08/14/07 05:57 PM Re: not feeling like a guy [Re: sportinrucks]
hideout Offline

Registered: 08/10/07
Posts: 84
Loc: michigan
i dont like men or women, it doesnt mean your not a guy it just means your different
just take things at your own pace

#173226 - 08/14/07 06:58 PM Re: not feeling like a guy [Re: hideout]
Barney Offline

Registered: 07/31/06
Posts: 236
Loc: Southern Utah/Northern Arizon
The good thing is that you can choose how/who you want to be. Sorry your feeling the dilema of not knowing what is right for you at this point but you have lots of time to make that determination.

Just listen to you and do what is right for you and I suspect you will be fine.


#173234 - 08/14/07 07:28 PM Re: not feeling like a guy [Re: Barney]
markgreyblue Offline

Registered: 12/19/03
Posts: 5400
Loc: Pasadena, CA
your friends will love you for who you are.
i can only hope they will me as messed up as i am.
i used to have to remind myself about sex in my 20s
- fear etc...

as weird as it sounds or maybe old fashioned: be yourself,
and those who like you and love you, wil let you know by sticking around. you'll figure out what that means to you.

good luck!

Edited by markgreyblue (08/14/07 07:28 PM)
" not look outside yourself for the leader."
-wisdom of the hopi elders

"...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous

#173670 - 08/16/07 05:57 PM Re: not feeling like a guy [Re: markgreyblue]
cbfull Offline

Registered: 01/26/07
Posts: 386
Loc: Ohio
First off, you have to get in touch with what you are saying to yourself so you can weed out the negative crap that you have been taught.

If this sounds interesting to you let me know and I will tell you how to get rid of them.


Guilt and shame have never done any of us any good at all.

#177150 - 08/30/07 02:11 PM Re: not feeling like a guy [Re: cbfull]
sportinrucks Offline

Registered: 10/01/04
Posts: 443
Loc: Louisiana
hey, i saw ur reply to my post ''Not Feeling Like a Guy'', Ive just come around to it. Im pretty interested what you are saying, drop me a line Im interested in seeing how to trun negatives to positives.


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