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#174448 - 08/20/07 03:59 AM My friends words because I have none.
Aidanchase Offline

Registered: 02/14/07
Posts: 89
Loc: Vancouver, BC
I have had a very hard time dealing with my feelings for alexander lately... and he has now passed away I am unable to comprehend whats going on in my head right now.. A few days ago I turned to a very special lady in my life named Jessica. She was my councellor in High School and the only adult who I trust right now.

Like me I thought others might have a hard time finding what to say so maybe these outside words can help:

As hard as it will be for you to say goodbye or let him go, it is important to remember what is best for him. He is probably in quite a bit of pain, and he will be going to a pain free place where he will be free. The impact people have on our lives can happen in a minute...some people are in our lives for a lifetime, others are in it for only a short's not the amount of time that matters but what they offered to our lives and what we offered to theres. I know it will be very hard to let him go, but remember that memories last forever and so does the impact that someone has had.

He was in a lot of pain near the end... I hope its true that he is in a better place.. although I am directing these words towards Alexanders cause I think they can be thought about in other situations as well. Alexander was not just a survivor to me he was a friend one who shared the background of being a survivor like me and not only that but he shared a similar age to me in common something I never seem to be able to find very often..

I feel this is an example of something in the moment the now and something we currently must survive and as a tribute to Alexander because he was always there to listen and talk his will to survive has been placed in the survivor forum because he would want everyone to keep surviving and healing.

Edited by Aidanchase (08/20/07 06:27 AM)

#174449 - 08/20/07 04:03 AM Re: My friends words because I have none. [Re: Aidanchase]
Stefan012 Offline
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Registered: 12/18/06
Posts: 281
Loc: The Netherlands
beautifully said, both you and Jessica.

Edited by Stefan012 (08/20/07 04:21 AM)
You lost the things that you thought you would never miss.
You let them out and miss them while they're gone
But there's memories down here and they will always live down here
No they can't take them away, so they won't

#174452 - 08/20/07 06:27 AM Re: My friends words because I have none. [Re: Stefan012]
Aidanchase Offline

Registered: 02/14/07
Posts: 89
Loc: Vancouver, BC
sitting here late at night... reminds me of him he was the one there at this time... i miss him so much.

#174455 - 08/20/07 06:54 AM Re: My friends words because I have none. [Re: Aidanchase]
sabata Offline

Registered: 08/08/06
Posts: 1950
Aidan--------------i am so sorry--------------i have no words for you----------------to help you-----------------i dont know how------------------------steve

#174489 - 08/20/07 11:27 AM Re: My friends words because I have none. [Re: sabata]
Xavier91 Offline

Registered: 06/11/07
Posts: 84
You said it well.

Alexander will be missed.
He won't be forgotten.



Rather laugh about what has been
Then fear what still comes, perhaps
Rather loving a big ghost
Then hating something that you canít see

You are gone, but closer then ever

#174496 - 08/20/07 11:55 AM Re: My friends words because I have none. [Re: Stefan012]
frost Offline

Registered: 03/15/07
Posts: 1377
Loc: Eh?
Originally Posted By: Stefan012
beautifully said, both you and Jessica.

thank you for posting Aidan. these words you've said in your post are well thought and it will be difficult to let him go for the many lives he affected here.

he will be greatly missed



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