Just a thought.... don't force it with your T. When your ready you will be able to tell her.
Just remember the only person who should feel guilty, is the sick perverts who did this to you.
As for shame, I felt a lot of "shame", but once I realized it was more embarrassment then "shame", it was easier to talk about. Just try and remember, it's over now and the only way to work through it, is to talk about it.
Shawn and Ben will always be in my heart....
Happiness is like peeing your pants; Everyone can see it, but only YOU feel the warmth.
Peebles, Ohio WOR alumni, Oct. 2007