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#173253 - 08/14/07 05:32 PM is it weird
hideout Offline

Registered: 08/09/07
Posts: 84
Loc: michigan
this is sort of like the cutting yourself forum
but in my case, sometimes i do insanely crazy things like break my hand with a rock and hit it against a wall until i pass out
for no reason other than to do it
i think its kinda weird

#173255 - 08/14/07 05:44 PM Re: is it weird [Re: hideout]
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA

I think the reasons you do this would be similar to those for why a guy cuts. You may feel you need to be punished. You may consider that harming yourself is a way to feel something, rather than nothing at all. Or you may find that this pain is more bearable because you yourself have caused it; you are in control.

Like I said on that other thread, these are all coping strategies we learn as abused boys. Don't blame yourself for any of this; just get help in dealing with the problem. Any doctor will understand and won't blame you either.

Much love,

Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
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