it is not my intention to make anyone upset. believe it or not, i was trying to actually do the opposite - i thought you might be upset enough.
maybe it would be best if i just pulled back and let you two go at it before i screw things up worse.
i'm sorry, Jaysen.
PS - it's not that you do or don't "deserve" anyone's help. or is that why you've been helping others? because you feel they deserve it? well, let me leave you with this - you "deserve" help as much as anyone else here, and I'm sorry if I aggrivated you any.