boy, i remember my mom catching me with the neighbor girl. i was like eight. naturally, being the boy, they blamed it on 'boys will be boys' scolded me, and made me tell her and her parents i was sorry. after being shamed and yelled at, i wasnt about to tell the truth. i remember mom asking me where i got such an idea, and just saying, "i dont know" :rolleyes:
after getting in trouble i wasnt about to tell her that i had done it before with my abuser, and another neighbor girl. i was in enough trouble already.
what gets me in hindsite, is that she never even explained that what i was doing was sex!!!! i came away just as ignorant and confused as before, only now i was more careful about hiding it. i often wonder, if she had told me the truth, would i have gone on to get so screwed up? a lot of my issues came about because i felt perverted and sinful. if i had felt healthy and normal, i dont think things would have turned out the way they did.
a good post, that really got me thinking.
The world is a dangerous place, not because of those that are evil, but because of those who do nothing about them- Albert Einstein