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#155163 - 05/09/07 05:09 AM USE ME like the BITCH I AM!
Still Offline

Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 7011
Loc: FEMA Region 1
Go ahead!

Fucking USE ME again and again

You make me feel like I'm 12 all over again

did you get your jollies?

All it cost me is .............FUCK THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#155164 - 05/09/07 05:14 AM Re: USE ME like the BITCH I AM! [Re: Still]
EGL Offline
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Registered: 06/19/04
Posts: 7821
Hi, Robbie. I know, I know. I feel the same way, man. Really, I do. It's sick, perverted, and demented. And I told her/him/it that, too. Sorry you got caught up in it all. But please try not to let it distract you from your own recovery, since that is the goal of each person here - to get ourselves better.

Hugs to you, man. I know this sucks really bad.


#155173 - 05/09/07 05:53 AM Re: USE ME like the BITCH I AM! [Re: EGL]
WalkingSouth Offline

Registered: 08/30/05
Posts: 16270
Loc: Waldport, Oregon

I hear ya, man. We give of ourselves and that is good and honorable. The thing I guess we have to consider at times like this is how we can continue to give without allowing ourselves to be hurt. For me that is much easier said than done as I'm sure it is for you as well. I feel like anything I say here will be so hollow, but please know that I care and understand where you're coming from. There are still many good people here in this place, you being one of them. Let's continue down this path side by side together supporting our brothers through these tough events.

Lots of love,


"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting 'Holy Shit! What a ride!'" ~Hunter S. Thompson

#155191 - 05/09/07 09:09 AM Re: USE ME like the BITCH I AM! [Re: WalkingSouth]
sabata Offline

Registered: 08/08/06
Posts: 1950

#155194 - 05/09/07 10:35 AM Re: USE ME like the BITCH I AM! [Re: sabata]
MemoryVault Offline

Registered: 03/02/07
Posts: 693
Loc: NJ
Robbie --

You were the first person I thought of when I found out. I'm sorry. I spent a couple of nights up PM-ing "truth" too. I believe that what we did, what we offered--our time, our empathy, is worth as much as it was before. I'm proud of who I was when I chose to help. But it really sucks.

Send me a note if you'd like to talk about it. I promise I won't turn out to be a women's soccer team from Duluth or something. \:\)


#155195 - 05/09/07 10:35 AM Re: USE ME like the BITCH I AM! [Re: sabata]
melliferal Offline

Registered: 11/03/05
Posts: 1159
Never let anyone make you feel ashamed or upset for being supportive and kind, EVER. And never let things like this make you hesitate in being supportive and kind in the future. All these people do, despite their manipulative and cruel modus, is prove that their targets are GOOD PEOPLE, like you.

Children cannot consent; they can only comply.

Oprah's resources for male survivors

#155197 - 05/09/07 11:14 AM Re: USE ME like the BITCH I AM! [Re: melliferal]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA

There were a LOT of good people hurt by this, and for what it's worth, when this topic came up last night you were the first guy we thought of. But what happened reflects ONLY on him/her - it doesn't say a damn thing about you. Continue to be the good, courageous and noble guy that you are.

Stick with us, man. Focus on what you are doing and why. That's the best response, really it is. The best way to strike back is to show that you can keep going and will NOT be defeated.

Much love,

Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

#155201 - 05/09/07 11:48 AM Re: USE ME like the BITCH I AM! [Re: roadrunner]
pain4ever Offline

Registered: 04/05/01
Posts: 1032

I feel you man. Its seems like thats all people ever want to do is use you in one way or another. We sacrifice ourselves all the time to that. Now you have to stop doing that!

You did nothing wrong or nothing to deserve this. We are here for you...just Scream, let it out!!!

Much Love

Peace and Tranquility all depends on your frame of reference.

#155205 - 05/09/07 12:42 PM Re: USE ME like the BITCH I AM! [Re: pain4ever]
VN Offline

Registered: 06/03/05
Posts: 723
I'm sorry, I do not understand. I am sorry you was hurt by something.

#155206 - 05/09/07 12:48 PM Re: USE ME like the BITCH I AM! [Re: VN]
Hauser Offline

Registered: 11/12/05
Posts: 2963
Loc: United States
You have to remember that deception is always possible in a forum such as this. I am not bothered by his post(s), in a way I find him laughable and pathetic. I would much rather play video games or get high than to take the TIME to do what he did. (hint, get a life dude)

People like that can come here all they want, I won't be discouraged.

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