Major213; I generally don't come to this page because I'm not gay...(actually, I'm not sexually inclined period.) But I think you need to get serious help ASAP, so I've followed you're thread from the "friends and family" section, hoping that you'll read my response and get the assistance you need. Thus, I cut & pasted it here:
OK...this is very difficult for me to share. There is a way to know, physically.
Wear underwear of pajames to bed.
If, in the morning, you feel you've been victimized, you can, discreetly, take the underwear and/or pajamas (and the sheets if you can) with you to a police station and discuss your concerns, and DON'T wash yourself. It will be very a very difficult thing to do, but the underwear and/or pajamas and/or sheets will be looked at for forensic evidence to determine if their are any seminal or other fluids present that would indicate abuse. You yourself can also be examined by a medical doctor for other evidence. If any of it proves positive, the police will want to talk to everyone who sleeps in that room, and, quite honestly, if someone lies, it is very hard to maintain a lie before professional interviewers.
In the meantime, TELL SOMEONE: a doctor, a cop, a therapist...any professional person with the knowledge of how to help you deal with this situation NOW.
It's not a nice solution, but I think it is a workable solution, and I think that what you are describing is EXTREMELY serious.
You have just stated on a public forum that you think you are an ongoing victim of a serious crime. I don't know how this works, but maybe someone responsible for this website can directly help you contact the proper authorities. Would you like that help?
He who dies with the most toys...loses them all when he dies.
He who dies having fed and cared for his brother, wins in the eyes of God...and the hearts of his brothers.
He who dies but didn't ride...well...he didn't really live anyway!