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#14999 - 10/24/02 02:05 PM NOMSV
contender Offline

Registered: 12/17/01
Posts: 58
Loc: New York
Hi To All,

I for one am glad that the Board has decided to move "Factperson" to the proper location.

His/her take on treatment of people who abuse is all wrong. Abusers need treatment not only because it may help them stop abusing but because they are human beings like everyone else and probably feel terrible about what they have done and deserve forgiveness which may enable them to stop what they are doing.

Factperson had no right to make any of the comments he made. It is none of his business how therapists decide on patients, he has no right to criticize therapists on how much they charge or their motivation for selecting clients, he is out of line for saying any of the things he or she said.

The reason why we have a website like this is only for people to vent their emotions, describe their problems, talk about their successess in therapy to share with other people who may benefit from it.

I for one feel that factperson should be not allowed to use this website and he has been disruptive and disrespectful toward everyone and has made absolutely no contribution at all. None of the ideas he has brought up have any value whatsoever.

Am I the only one who feels this way?

#15000 - 10/24/02 11:51 PM Re: NOMSV
Wuamei Offline

Registered: 08/19/02
Posts: 2700
Loc: The left turn I should have ta...
I've not been here long enuf to know too many of you very well, or to know much of the story behind factsperson. But I've been here long enuf to read his posts & to get kinda aggravated with hearing the same stuff over & over. Still don't really understand what all the commotion was all about. Don't really care, I guess.

Mattandrew, your coming back to this forum, admitting your mistakes, and sharing as you are seems to me to be an indication of your sincerity, willingness to learn & grow, and courage. Surviving & thriving, and helping one another do the same, is what its all about. Sounds to me like you're here for the right reasons. I'm glad you're here.

Take good care of you


"I can't stand pain. It hurts me."
--Daffy Duck


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