Coming to this one late. Actually, all I needed was the heading to know where you would be going with this one.
Who knows - you may be right. But there are of course lots of people out there who are single with no kids, and who are just, well, into their work and a singles lifestyle.
But I understand where you are coming from bro. When you belong to a minority that is constantly bombarded with blame and criticism, it's an important affirmation of worth and dignity to find prominent people who are also "one of us". That's a message worth stating.
But guess what Mark. You're a great guy and my good friend, and I love you with or without Condoleeza. Hmmmmm, yeah, preferably without.