The worst thing about being a survivor is that if you're not perfect with other survivors, you might as well shoot yourself in the head.
Don't confront. Don't challenge. Don't ever be anything but encouraging or you are the enemy.
What are we? A bunch of BABIES? NO! We survived against the odds. We are the strongest people I have ever run into. And we are not thin-skinned when it comes to fighting those odds.
But confront another survivor about abusive behaviour? God help you!
In my weekly group, I have tried to shrug it off until it got to be too much. And then I have to say STOP! You don't have a right, survivor or not, to abuse me!
It took a lot for me to get to that. And I am there and I say: Don't MESS with me!