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#141476 - 02/14/07 03:15 AM sorry if too graphic
lester Offline
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Registered: 02/12/07
Posts: 2
sorry if my post regarding my thoughts and attitudes toward women was too graphic, especially for a new member like me. i only meant that my abuse issues have caused my relationships with women to be very difficult and unsucessful, especialy in regards to a healthy sexual component, and my mariage was destroyed and terminated largely over sexual issues. it all goes back to being sexually tormented so many years ago. i guess the real question is how we, as male sexual survivors cope with our sexuality, which was so badly comprimised by abuse of our bodies. any input on this greatly appreciated. PS- please help me with the ground rules and codes of conduct on this site as i am new and want only to help and be helped by others sharing my issues and concerns.

#141504 - 02/14/07 06:59 AM Re: sorry if too graphic [Re: lester]
WalkingSouth Offline

Registered: 08/30/05
Posts: 16270
Loc: Waldport, Oregon

You can access the "rules" here.

Discussion Board Guidelines

Welcome to MaleSurvivor Come on in and look around. Hope you find this to be as healing of a place as so many of the rest of us have. Bunch of great men here. We're not perfect, but we do our best to support and help one another along the path.

Lots of love,


"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting 'Holy Shit! What a ride!'" ~Hunter S. Thompson

#141618 - 02/14/07 09:49 PM Re: sorry if too graphic [Re: WalkingSouth]
philobat Offline

Registered: 01/31/07
Posts: 293
Loc: California

I am new as well and have made some mistakes and even gotten into heated arguments already. We are a sensitive bunch!

The guys on here are really cool and will answer any questions you have because some of it is not covered in the rules and/or guidelines.

I constantly ask questions and have never been let down yet!


#141726 - 02/15/07 09:43 PM Re: sorry if too graphic [Re: philobat]
michael Joseph Offline

Registered: 03/11/01
Posts: 2719
Loc: Virginia
Tabolihp that is you backwards.
Philobat talk to you later.
Ask questions is good.
Hugs MJ

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