Morning Star,

The way I see it through my wife is that she doesn't feel safe and secure with people who are suppose to love her unconditionally. She is reactive towards her parents and towards me at times. She went through 2 years of therapy and has relapes from time to time. It is an on going process as it is with all of us. I can see her depression as it set in from time to time. Therapy taught her to accept people for who they are, even her parents, and know she cannot change them.