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#135106 - 08/19/06 10:16 AM embarrassing question
SJ Offline
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Registered: 06/28/06
Posts: 9
Has anyone heard of 'traumatic hemorrhoids'.
Prior to my current wife, I had a short relationship with a very abusive girlfriend. She was smart however as she liked to hide her handiwork under my pants by bruising my tail so nobody would see. One time she took me out to the barn and beat my rear end so bad that I woke up on the ground in such pain to move anypart of my ass that she had to take me to the ER where she told the doctor a line of bullshit about me falling onto my ass. I ended up with a broken tailbone and 'traumatic hemorrhoids' as well as several lumps and bruises on my butt. Long story short is that I continue to have problems with hemorrhoids to this day and wonder what I can to to alleviate this embarrassing condition besides Prep H which does not work.

#135107 - 08/19/06 01:51 PM Re: embarrassing question
reality2k4 Offline

Registered: 07/06/04
Posts: 6845
Loc: Stuck between water, air, and ...
When you are stressed, trauma has its way of opening up old wounds.
Even when the wound site is healed, trauma can result in opening it back up, or phantom symptoms,

Have a word with a doc who knows this stuff, or google it. I get it from time to time,


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#135108 - 08/20/06 12:44 AM Re: embarrassing question
TJ jeff Offline

Registered: 08/07/04
Posts: 3560
Loc: Northern Wisconsin

if you find anything that works - please let me know

thank you for having the 'guts' to post this question here

Mom broke my tailbone more than a few times when i was a kid - I actualy don't have a tailbone now ( as confirmed by a chiropractic x-ray - try explaining that one to your chiropracter \:\( - because of what she done I now have phantom pains 'back there' from time to time - and when i am stressed it is much worse and then the hemorrhoids flare up

sorry your old girlfriend was so bad to you - glad you got out of that relationship

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#135109 - 08/21/06 10:40 PM Re: embarrassing question
markgreyblue Offline

Registered: 12/19/03
Posts: 5400
Loc: Pasadena, CA
sj - i am so sorry -

i would say see a proctologist immediately for evaluation -

there may be a way to correct this -

it may be leftover damage -

that might be able to be repaired through therapies - or surgery-

please seek help it might be still dangerous -

or there might be - if there's no way to fix it

somehow alleviate your discomfort - 'manage it'


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