I understand that we tend to want to "pigeonhole" everything in our lives and give nice, neat little definitions to make the confusing parts of life a little more understandable. However, I get really frustrated because this issue keeps cropping up time and time again in my life and wreaks havoc with me. I start to doubt the decisions that I have made and start to feel really inadequate and completely ***ed up.
It feels like my life is always in a state of flux and there is never any consistency - does that make sense?
There are no unresolved issues - they just didn't resolve themselves the way we would have liked. "Grinder and Bandler - Neuro-Linguistic Programming"