my introduction to X-dressing came from one of my abusers who liked me to wear ladies underwear, so it became linked to sexual activity in the strongest possible way.
Ever since then I have always loved to see women in sexy lingerie, but then most guys find that attractive and a turn on as well.
My 'problem' came back however when I started to wear female underwear when acting out, it became a way of prolonging the whole episode and winding myself up into the frenzy that acting out was for me.
Like the acting out, it's now history for me; well, wearing them is, but I still like the look of them - on the right sex!
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau